I can’t wait until tonight’s 8-minute dating event! I won’t be there to date but to watch and offer support.  Let me throw about a bit of advice “more cheese, less whine”. By that I mean, more time smiling and enjoying the positive and less time going to negative town . I bring this up because having been single and a radio host for the greater part of my life I know for a fact that attitude is what shapes these events. Just because you don’t meet your soulmate doesn’t mean you can’t have a great time. If you go there with a goal (for example: I’m going to make one new friend or I’m going to have a great time no matter what) you will achieve it so make it a positive one. By the same token if you leave the house expecting not to like anyone, you won’t. You also should manage your expectations. It’s great if you meet a man that looks like Brad Pitt and acts like George Clooney (or a woman that looks like Halle Berry and acts like Drew Barrymore) but I wouldn’t make that a goal.  That being said put on an outfit you are comfortable in and work it! I’ll see you tonight.

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